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Thursday, April 8, 2010

Failures

Most
FAILURES
begin
with
AN
EXCUSE

1 comment:

  1. Hi Master Lilian, “beso, beso”, remember me Jennifer Church? We hv arrived back home. We had a splendid time in Malaysia, especially spending those too few days together with u & ur wonderful, wonderful & lovely friends. Thank u very much. Sally & I were reading ur insightful & interesting blog on our way back here 2 the UK, whenever we get a chance. I just wanna put in a couple of comments 2 tis short but nonetheless important topic. Focusing on the “excuse” issue, it is quite humanly innate that one often finds it VERY hard & difficult to identify faults in himself/herself. Therefore, he/she would usually tend 2 make an “excuse” which actually is transferring the fault 2 someone/something else. Like a “blame”. Often times to find fault in oneself is very dark & it hurts very badly. Also, I liken this 2 playing golf. This sport is extremely difficult & challenging because a golfer is actually playing against his/her own ability, both physically & mentally. You(yourself) is your toughest opponent. I know that I’ve read something about narcissism somewhere in this blog (I’ll get into that further at a later time. Sorry Master cos I’m a little tired now & I hv 2 unwind frm this trip home & pull myself together for work next wk. Boooriiiiing !). In my opinion, narcissism is a manifestation of lack of self belief & confidence. Again, in my opinion, the person certainly has a very low self esteem, period. Narcissism or self-centeredness or simply a person who is “full-of-it”. This person is actually putting on a brave front to hide & overcome his/her inabilities and/or shortcomings. The result is FAILURE. That person will always b very unhappy & feels that the entire world is against him/her because he/she is standing in the centre of their own stupor of failures. Will write more to share with u & ur audience at a later time.

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